Koyambira komwe kudzikulitsa

Mutu wakukula kwaumwini ndi kudzikulitsa uli pachimake pakufunika kwake lero. Ofalitsa nkhani kulikonse akugogomezera kufunikira kwakukula ndi chitukuko kuti zinthu zikuyendere bwino. Koma kwa ambiri, funso lidakalipo, komwe angayambire kudzipangira okha, ngati kulibe chilimbikitso, nthawi ndipo simukufuna kudikirira zotsatira.

Pali njira zambiri zodzitetezera, chifukwa munthu aliyense amatha kusankha ndikugwiritsa ntchito yomwe imamuyenerera kwambiri. M'nkhani yathu tikambirana njira zodziwika bwino komanso zothandiza, komanso zida zogwiritsira ntchito podzikulitsa.

Kodi kudzikonda kumapereka chiyani?

Kudzikulitsa kumatsegulira chiyembekezo chambiri komanso mwayi watsopano kwa munthu.
Moyo wamtundu watsiku ndi tsiku umakhala wowala kwambiri, wosunthika komanso wolemera, chifukwa mumapeza anzanu atsopano, mumapeza maluso atsopano, onjezani malingaliro anu, malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Kudzikulitsa kumakupatsani mwayi wogwirizira zamkati mwanu ndikupeza njira zokulitsira maluso anu.

Mutha kudzipangira nokha gawo lililonse - lauzimu, luso, thupi, luntha. Koma muyenera kudziwa chifukwa chomwe mukuchitira izi, zotsatira zake zomaliza ziyenera kukhala. Nthawi yomweyo, kugwira ntchito pawekha, ndikofunikira kukhala okonzekera maphunziro osalekeza a tsiku ndi tsiku. Nthawi zonse pamakhala kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa chisankho chochita ndi chochitikacho. Chifukwa chake, mufunika pulani yolondola, mtundu wamaphunziro oyambira bwino.

Koyambira: malangizo ndi sitepe

Pali kusinthasintha kwina kwa iwo omwe atsala pang'ono kuyamba njira yodzikongoletsera.

• Mvetsetsani nokha... Muyenera kusankha madera omwe mumakonda. Ngati simungathe kusankha, ndiye kuti simusintha. Pali njira ziwiri zopezera njira yanu: yoyamba ndiyoyesa zolakwika, ndipo yachiwiri ikuphatikiza kukhala ndi zosangalatsa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zinthu zizikhala zosavuta.
• Nyamula mabuku ndikusunga zothandiza... Kuti mupange, muyenera kudziwa zomwe mungapeze kuchokera m'mabuku apadera. Chifukwa chake, ngati mulibe mabuku azam'malo anu kunyumba, ndi nthawi yoti mupite kusitolo yamabuku.

Muthanso kulandira zambiri pamasemina, masamba awebusayiti, maphunziro ndi maphunziro.

• Ganiza bwino... Mwina mudamvapo kale kuti malingaliro ndi othandizira? Ndipo izi ndi zowonadi, chifukwa chake, lunjikani malingaliro anu ndendende pakukhazikitsa dongosolo lanu: muyenera kulingalira zamtsogolo mwanu, zotsatira zanu, kuzindikira kwa ena.
• Yesetsani... Lingaliro ndi malingaliro pawokha sizokwanira kuti munthu adzitukule yekha. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe mwaphunzira ndikupeza luso tsiku lililonse. Musaope kupanga zolakwitsa, chifukwa lero simunachite bwino, ndipo mawa mudzachita bwino bwino.

Malangizo a Kanema

Ndi njira ziti zomwe muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito?

Timasankha zomwe zili pafupi nafe komanso zomwe zimawonetsa zamkati mwathu ndi malingaliro. M'munsimu muli njira zotchuka kwambiri.

Kukula mwauzimu

Imadziwika kuti ndiyo yayikulu, chifukwa imatha kubweretsa nkhokwe zamkati mwamunthu kukhala wokangalika. Kudzikonza mwauzimu kumadalira pamalingaliro angapo: chowonadi, mtendere, chikondi komanso zosachita zachiwawa.

Pali zida zingapo zokulitsira kukula kwauzimu:

• Kusinkhasinkha.
• Kuyimba.
• Kulandira ndikusanthula zambiri.
• Nkhani zochenjeza zolimbikitsa kuchitapo kanthu.
• Kukula kwa luso la kulenga.

Kukula kwanu

Amapereka zochitika m'njira zingapo: waluntha, wamaganizidwe, thupi, mgwirizano wamawonekedwe akunja, kulumikizana.

Ponena za bukhuli, zotsatira zabwino zitha kupezeka mothandizidwa ndi:

• Mabuku.
• Maphunziro apakanema.
• Kuyendera akatswiri azamisala.
• Masemina, maphunziro, maphunziro.
• Makalasi okhala ndi mphunzitsi, mphunzitsi.

Kukula kwanzeru

Zimakupatsani mwayi wopeza zatsopano, kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano. Njira imeneyi ikuphatikiza kutha kuphunzira, kuthana ndi zovuta.

Zida zothandizira kukulira ndizosavuta, koma zothandiza:

• Kuthetsa mavuto omveka.
• Kuphunzitsa kukumbukira.
• Kuphunzira zilankhulo zakunja.
• Kuyang'ana mayankho a mafunso ovuta.
• Pangani malingaliro amalingaliro.
• Phunzirani kuimba zida zoimbira.
• Pangani nkhani.
• Phunzirani kumasuka.

Mutha kusankha ndendende njira yomwe ikukuyenererani ndikuyamba kudzipangira nokha, ndipo chidziwitso chatsopano ndi malingaliro othandiza, omwe akufotokozedwa munkhani yathu, angakuthandizeni ndi izi.

Mabuku ndi makanema odziwika kwambiri pazodzikulitsa

Pali mabuku ndi makanema ambiri omwe amalimbikitsa kwambiri iwo omwe atenga njira yodzikulitsa. Tikukuwonetsani kalingaliro kakang'ono ka mabuku odziwika kwambiri ndi makanema.

Mabuku

• "Masewera Anthu Amasewera. Anthu omwe amasewera " Erica Berna. Ntchito yamaganizidwe yomwe imatilimbikitsa kuganiza, kusanthula, kutsutsana. Bukuli limakhudza nkhani zoyaka, ndipo wolemba amaphunzitsa zanzeru zamalumikizidwe, komanso kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika.
• "Khalani anzanu abwino kwambiri" Dena Waldsch adagwedezeka. Wolembayo akhudza mutu wakale wachisangalalo ndi mgwirizano m'banja. Bukuli limafotokoza zakusiyana kwathunthu pakati pa mabanja amakono omwe ali ndi mwana m'modzi kapena awiri ochokera m'mabanja akulu momwe agogo athu adakulira. Mutawerenga bukuli, mudzatha kuwona moyo mwanjira ina ndipo mwina mungayambe kusintha.
• Kupitilira: Masitepe Khumi ku Moyo Wamuyaya". Olemba bukuli, a Ray Kurzway ndi a Terry Grosman, akufotokoza mfundo zomwe zingathandize kuti moyo ukhale wabwino komanso kutalikitsa moyo. Chifukwa cha bukuli, mudzakhala tcheru kwambiri paumoyo wanu.
• “Iwe ndi banja lako. Kukula Kwaumwini " Virginia Satyr. Aliyense m'banja amakhala moyo wake, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri umodzi. Wolemba bukuli akufotokoza momwe angabwezeretsere banja ubale wachikondi womangidwa mchisamaliro, kutentha ndi kuyandikira.
• "Mmonki Yemwe Adagulitsa Ferrari Yake: Nkhani Yokwaniritsa Zilakalaka ndi Kuzindikira Zopita Kwake" Robin Sharma. N'zovuta kuchotsa malingaliro olakwika ndikupeza mgwirizano ndi dziko lotizungulira, koma wolemba bukulo akutiitana kuti tizigwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu kuti tisinthe moyo wathu.

Zithunzi zoyenda

Makanema amakondedwa ndi ambiri, koma olimbikitsa komanso olimbikitsa, mwina ndi aliyense. Kanema wapamwamba kwambiri amathandizira kuti timizike pazomwe timawona pazenera. Kuphatikiza apo, kanema wabwino amatipulumutsira nthawi, chifukwa ndi sabata yowerengera.

Ngati simukufuna kukhala ndi zokondweretsa zokha, komanso kukulitsa malingaliro anu, timapereka mndandanda wamafilimu odziwika:

• "Nthawi zonse inde".
• "Masewera amisala".
• "Miyoyo isanu ndi iwiri".
• "Munthu amene anasintha zonse".
• "Green Mile".
• "Patsogolo pa kalasi."
• Chiwonetsero cha Truman.
• "Okutobala kumwamba".
• "Sindinaseweredwe m'bokosilo."
• "Kufunafuna Chimwemwe".
• "Ndipo mumtima mwanga ndimavina."
• Slumdog Miliyoneya.

Malangizo TOP 10 ochokera kwa akatswiri amisala

Ndikofunikira kwambiri kumvera upangiri wa akatswiri amisala omwe amatithandiza kuwunika zochita zathu, momwe zimayendera komanso kulondola kwawo.

Kudzitukula sikumangokhala kotere, chifukwa chifukwa chosowa dongosolo lomveka bwino komanso zochita zofunikira, anthu nthawi zambiri amayimira pamenepo, osawona chiyembekezo chakuyenda kwina.

1. Sungani zolemba zanu zodziyang'anira... Mutha kulemba blog kapena kulemba zonse zomwe zimachitika mukabuku wamba. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muziyang'ana zinthu moyenera komanso kuti mumange bwino.
2. Landirani nokha zenizeni... Kukula kwathu kumatibweretsa pafupi ndi chithunzi choyenera. Kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse kumatiphunzitsa kuwona zolakwika mwa ife eni ndikuzichotsa.
3. Tulukani m'malo anu abwino... Musaope zatsopano ndi zachilendo kwa inu. Phunzirani kuyesa, kufufuza, kuyesa, komanso koposa zonse, dzikhulupirireni.
4. Yambitsaninso ubongo wanu... Chotsani zosafunikira komanso zosafunikira, malingaliro achilendo, malingaliro a ena. Dziwonetseni nokha pazonse.
5. Pezani chidziwitso chatsopano... Zolemba, maphunziro, semina zikuthandizani ndi izi. Mukakhala ndi lingaliro lofananalo, chitanipo kanthu. Siyani mantha anu onse kumbuyo.
6. Gonjetsani ulesi... Kusuntha zonse mawa kapena kudzipatsa nokha tsiku lowonjezera kuti mupumule? Awa ndi mawu aulesi wathu, omwe nthawi zambiri timagonjera. Konzani nthawi yanu ndi mphindi yopuma ndipo ulesi wanu sutha kukuyendetsani.
7. Zowonjezera... Thamangitsani malingaliro olakwika, chifukwa pali zovuta zambiri m'moyo. Ngati mukuganiza bwino, ndiye kuti dziko liyamba kusintha kuti likhale labwino.
8. Tengani pang'ono... Palibe chilichonse padziko lapansi pano chomwe chimayamba nthawi yomweyo, kumbukirani kuti cholingacho chimakwaniritsidwa sitepe ndi sitepe, chifukwa chake musayimitse mseu, ndipo chitani kena kalikonse tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mupeze zotsatira.
9. Lumikizanani ndi iwo omwe amayang'ana moyo mwanzeru... Koma anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi kunyalanyaza amakonda kudzimvera chisoni, amanjenjemera, ndi bwino kupewa.
10. Khalani ndi moyo lero... Dziwani momwe mungamvere pano komanso tsopano, gwiritsani ntchito mphindiyo. Ambiri amangogwiritsa ntchito zomwe amakhala m'mbuyomu kapena mtsogolo, ndipo zamakono zimadutsa.

Chiwembu chavidiyo

Kudzikulitsa kumapangitsa moyo wathu kukhala wowala, kumadzaza ndi tanthauzo latsopano kapena kumatithandiza kupeza tanthauzo. Ndizofunikira kuti anthu azitsatira zabwino, chifukwa ndi zomwe zimatisiyanitsa ndi zamoyo zina padzikoli.

Ngati mukumva kuti moyo watsiku ndi tsiku wakuchulukirani kapena, mwina, mumakhala ndi malingaliro okhumudwitsa, yesani mu china chatsopano. Zitha kukhala zamasewera, zamanja, ntchito yatsopano, koma chofunikira ndichakuti musangalale. Munthu amene amakhutira ndi moyo wake, amangochititsa chidwi, chifukwa amawala ndi chisangalalo ndipo, monga kuwala kokongola, amakopa zochitika zosaneneka komanso anthu osangalatsa.

Tikukhulupirira kuti nkhani yathuyi ikuthandizani kuti muyambe njira yodzipangira nokha ndikupaka moyo wanu ndi mitundu yosangalatsa.

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