Mtsikana angapeze bwanji chibwenzi

Atsikana ambiri amadandaula kuti, ngakhale atayesetsa, sangapeze mnyamata yemwe angakhale pachibwenzi naye. Chifukwa cholephera ndikusowa chidziwitso cha momwe mungapezere mnyamata.

Nthawi zambiri vutoli limakumana ndi azimayi omwe amayang'ana kwambiri ntchito. Ndipo palibe zodabwitsa, chifukwa palibe nthawi ya moyo wake.

Komabe, ngati mukufunadi, zonse zidzatheka. Sitiyenera kutaya mtima ndikuyang'ana yochepetsayi. Ndi anthu okhawo omwe amachita bwino omwe amapita ku cholinga, zivute zitani.

Gawo ndi gawo logwirira ntchito

• Sankhani mnyamata yemwe mukufuna kupeza. Nthawi zambiri atsikana osakwatiwa amafunafuna zabwino zomwe TV ndi magazini amapereka. Chisoni chowonetsedwa ndi anyamata omwe akuzungulirani sichidziwika. Nthawi zambiri achinyamata omwe amakhala mozungulira samawala ndi nthabwala kapena ulemu. Koma, nthawi zambiri, anyamata amakhala ndi mikhalidwe yofunikira pakupanga maubale ndipo izi sizingathetse kusowa kwakumaso kwakunja.
• Siyani chizoloŵezi... Ngati mupita kuntchito masana ndikuyang'ana sitolo yapafupi, ndikuwonera TV madzulo, palibe chabwino chilichonse. Tulukani m'nyumba nthawi zambiri, pitani ku makanema, malo ogulitsira ndi malo ampikisano.
• Yendani opanda abwenzi... Ngati mukufuna kubweretsa nthawi yokomana ndi mnyamata pafupi, pitani kokayenda popanda anzanu. Magulu a atsikana amawopseza anyamata achichepere omwe akufuna kukakumana.
• Pangani anzanu... Powonjezera malo omwe mumakhala nawo, abwenzi atsopano adzawonekera, zomwe zikuwonjezera mwayi wanu wopeza chibwenzi.
• Onetsani kuleza mtima ndi kudziletsa.... Mukawona kuti mwamuna ali mchikondi, koma amabisa malingaliro ake, musathamangire kukamukankhira kutali, ngakhale sangakhale woyenera kalonga. Mumudziwe bwino, ndizotheka kuti atsegule kuchokera mbali inayo.
• Pezani zosangalatsa pagulu... Ntchito zoterezi zithandizira kukulitsa ndikuwonetsetsa misonkhano ndi anthu atsopano, omwe atha kukhala osankhidwa.
• Lumikizani kusaka ndi intaneti... Intaneti imapereka mwayi wosaneneka wopeza wokondedwa. Ndikulangiza kuti ndingodziwa pa intaneti, ndikuthana ndi chitukuko cha zinthu pamoyo weniweni.
• Malo otchuka azibwenzi... Anthu omwe akumanga ntchito ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito zithandizo zotere chifukwa chosowa nthawi yopuma.

Perekani zokonda kwa achinyamata omwe amakhala pafupi. Kupanda kutero, sizigwira ntchito kuti apange ubale, popeza mtunda umalepheretsa izi.

Malangizo a Kanema

Ndikukulangizani kuti musaganize zambiri zopeza wokondedwa. Yesetsani kupanga zochitika zomwe zingamuthandize kuti akupezeni.

Momwe mungapezere munthu wabwino

Atsikana ambiri amachita chidwi ndi yankho la funsoli. Ndilongosola malingaliro onse, popeza chilichonse chimadalira mtundu wa munthu amene mukufuna.

Maloto a kalonga wokwera pahatchi yoyera amatayidwa bwino. Zotsatira zake sizikhala zazitali kubwera, ngati mungayang'ane bwino achinyamata omwe akuzungulirani. Nthawi zambiri zimapezeka kuti bambo omwe mwakhala mukumufuna kwanthawi yayitali amapezeka komweko.

Nkhani yomwe ikufunsidwayo ndiyopatsa chidwi komanso yokhumudwitsa. Kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu, dziwani kuti ndi zinthu ziti zosavomerezeka ndi zomwe mungavomereze.

1. Ngati pali chithunzi cha mnyamata, chabwino. Izi zikutanthauza kuti wafotokozera zomwe mukuyembekezera komanso zofuna zanu. Kupanda kutero, yesetsani kuzipanga, popeza zosadziwika zimasokoneza kusaka.
2. Chofunikira sichotengera, koma chithunzi. Osamupeza wachinyamata yemwe amakwaniritsa zofunikira zonse. Lonjezani zikhulupiriro zanu kuti zikuthandizeni kupeza mwamuna woti mukwatire.
3. Ngati fanaku atuluka, adziwonetse yekha. Nthawi zina atsikana amathetsa zibwenzi chifukwa mikhalidwe ya anyamata amakhala osakwanira. Zomwe amuna amafuna kwambiri ndi chifukwa chake atsikana okongola amakhala osungulumwa.
4. Gwirizanani, ndizosangalatsa kumva mawu abwino ochokera kwa mnzanu watsopano. Sizofunikira. Zochita za munthu ndizokulirapo kuposa mawu amtchire. Kuphatikiza apo, palibe amene adzapereke chitsimikizo kuti mnyamatayo azikwaniritsa malonjezo ake.
5. Zikutanthauza chiyani? Ndiosavuta. Yesani mnyamata wanu pomupatsa mpata kuti asunge lonjezo. Ngati mnyamatayo amalimbana ndi ntchitoyi, ndiye kuti mutha kumudalira.
6. Osathamangira mopambanitsa kapena kuthamangitsa maloto. Osakhala mkazi wokondwa pocheza ndi munthu yemwe simumukonda.

Ngati mutakhala kanthawi kochepa kufunafuna mnzanu wamoyo, mudzachita bwino. Mwamunayo yemwe mumupeza azisamalira thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu. Musataye chiyembekezo ndikupita patsogolo, yang'anani pozungulira, chifukwa chikondi cha moyo wanu chikuyembekezera pakona yotsatira.

Momwe mungapezere mnyamata pa intaneti

Munthu aliyense wamakono ali ndi intaneti kunyumba. Nthawi yomweyo, tsiku lililonse anthu amathera nthawi yochulukirapo pa intaneti, akusangalala pa intaneti, akusaka zambiri komanso akuchita zibwenzi.

Ma netiweki amapereka masamba ambiri osankhidwa ndi malo ochezera, ndipo gwero lililonse lili ndi mawonekedwe ake. Kuti mupeze mnyamata pa intaneti, muyenera foni yam'manja, PC kapena netbook limodzi ndi chikhumbo chopeza theka.

• Lembetsani patsamba la zibwenzi... Ngati mukufuna kupanga chibwenzi chachikulu, ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mukane kuyendera zinthu zomwe zimawonetsa zogonana. Ngati cholinga chanu ndikukumana ndi abambo kuti muyambe banja, mverani masamba omwe ali ndi zotsatsa zokhudzana ndi zibwenzi.
• Lembani mawonekedwe mwatsatanetsatane... Mwamuna yemwe akufuna kupeza mtsikana amamvetsera ngati mbiriyo idapangidwa kale.
• Onetsani zokonda, zokonda ndi mawonekedwe... Sizipweteka kukweza zithunzi. Izi zipangitsa anyamata omwe amati mtima wanu awone kuti ndinu msungwana wokongola.
• Zosefera anyamata omwe amapereka anzawo kapena tsiku... Khalani otsutsa aliyense ofuna kusankhidwa. Ponena za olowerera, omwe muma profiles awo mulibe zithunzi kapena chidziwitso chilichonse, mwina angawanyalanyaze, kapena kulumikizana mosamala.
• Ofuna kuphunzira... Mwa njira yolumikizirana ndi wolowererayo, ndikosavuta kumvetsetsa zomwe ali. Ngati wachichepere amagwiritsa ntchito mawu otukwana, kutaya mawu osalemba, kapena kulakwitsa, angaganize ngati ubale ndi munthu wotero ndi wofunikira.
• Ngati mumamukonda mnyamatayo, onetsetsani kuti mukulemba... Osadikira mpaka atapeza mbiri yanu. Ndizotheka kuti izi sizingachitike. Kuti muyambe, lembani uthenga wachidule komanso woyambirira womwe ungalimbikitse chidwi cha wosankhidwayo. Mukamayankhulana, fotokozani nokha mophweka, popewa kumvetsetsa komanso kusiyanitsa. Kusangalala sikungapweteke.

Mukamachezera masamba, chitani zinthu mosamala komanso mosamala, chifukwa wolowererayo atha kukhala wobera, wopotoza kapena wamisala. Musanapite kokacheza, dziwani munthuyo. Ngati wokonda chinsinsi akufuna kukumana pamalo achilendo kapena kulowa nawo kampani yomwe ikuwakayikira, kanani.

Zinsinsi zavidiyo

Mukakhala pachibwenzi, uzani okondedwa anu komwe mukupita komanso ndi ndani. Chenjezo lidzakutetezani kuzinthu zosasangalatsa komanso zotsatirapo zoyipa.

Momwe mungapezere mnyamata wamaloto anu

Atsikana amalota zaubwenzi ndi mnyamata wamaloto awo, koma ambiri amalephera kumupeza. Pali zifukwa zambiri, kulingalira kulibe tanthauzo. Ndibwino kungoyang'ana kuthetsa vutoli ndikukwaniritsa cholinga. Izi ndizosavuta kuchita ngati mukudikirira moleza mtima, ndikuiwala za kuopa kusungulumwa.

Palibe malo pangozi m'moyo. Munthu amamanga tsogolo lake kudzera m'malingaliro, zisankho komanso zochita. Pali zosiyana, koma sizingatheke.

1. Sankhani zomwe munthu wamaloto anu ali... Kufunafuna munthu, osadziwa mikhalidwe yomwe ayenera kukhala nayo, simudzamupeza.
2. Kusaka kudzachita bwino ngati mungadzisinthe... Moyo ndi chinyengo, ndipo munthu aliyense amalandira zenizeni zomwe amaganiza komanso kuyerekezera. Izi zidzakuthandizani kudziwa momwe mungakopere amuna.
3. Tsegulani kulumikizana... Ngati simukumana ndikulankhulana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, simupeza munthu woti mukwatirane naye. Ingokumbukirani kuti mnyamatayo amawopa kukanidwa. Ngati awona izi, sizigwira ntchito.
4. Osangoyang'ana pamavuto... M'malo mwake, pumulani ndikukhalabe ndi chiyembekezo chazabwino.
5. Yesetsani kulingalira nthawi zonse... Tangoganizirani za munthu yemwe mumalota kuti mudzakhala naye moyo. Ganizirani zopita limodzi ku cafe, kuyenda paki, kapena kupumula kunja.
6. Amuna amafuna kuwona msungwana wamaloto pafupi nawo... Yesetsani kukhala amodzi. Mukadali osungulumwa, chifukwa moyo watsekedwa kuti musalumikizane ndi abambo ndipo sasintha.
7. Khulupirirani moyo wosangalala... Chimwemwe ndichinthu chosangalatsa, chomwe chimapangidwa ndi munthu. Lekani kuganiza kuti china chake chikusowa.
8. Pitilizani moyo ndikumwetulira... Kumwetulira ndi nyambo yomwe munthu amene wakhala ukuyembekezera kwa nthawi yaitali "akuluma" nayo, amene mudzakondweretse nawo chikondwerero choposa chimodzi.

Ngati mukufuna kukondedwa ndikufunidwa, musadzitsekere m'makoma anayi. Kuwonekera pamsewu nthawi zambiri ndipo mnyamatayo adzakusangalatsani.

Momwe mungapezere mnyamata ngati ndili woyipa

Musatenge mutuwo pamutu. Ndikhulupirireni, ndinu wokongola kuposa momwe mukuwonekera. Atsikana ambiri okongola amanyalanyaza kukongola kwawo. Akakhala ndi bwenzi, amaganiza kuti akuwoneka bwino. Akazi omwe amadutsa, amawatcha amulungu.

Palibe akazi oyipa. Anthu omwe amaganiza mosiyana ndi olakwika. Ngakhale atsikana omwe mwachibadwa amakhala ndi kukongola kopanda tanthauzo samakhala osangalala nthawi zonse. Ndizowona.

Ndikuthandizani kuchotsa tsankho ndikupatseni malingaliro omwe akuphunzitseni momwe mungakhalire mwatsopano. Ndikhulupirireni, kanthawi kapita kanthawi, ndipo mudzazindikira momwe mumalakwitsira kukongola. Ndipo wokondedwa yemwe adzakhalepo padzakhala umboni wa izi.

• Musaiwale mtendere wanu wamkati... Ngati ndinu munthu wabwino, abambo adzawona izi ndipo adzawona ngati msungwana wokongola. Mnyamata yemwe amasonyeza chidwi adzakukondani chifukwa cha zomwe muli. Ngati amuna sakufuna kukhala pachibwenzi, poganizira kuti siosangalatsa mokwanira, ndiye kuti sioyenera. Amazindikira mkazi mosiyana ndi inu.
• Kukongola kwamkati ndikofunika kuposa mawonekedwe... Yesetsani kuti mupeze mnyamata yemwe kukongola kwake kwamkati ndi koyambirira, osati mawonekedwe. Pangani ubale wosangalala komanso wokhalitsa ndi munthu wotere.
• Khalani ndi chidaliro mulimonse momwe zingakhalire... Onetsani ena kuthekera kodziyimira panokha komanso kudziyimira pawokha popanda malingaliro a ena.
• Lekani kuopa anthu ndikuiwala zamanyazi... Ngati munthu yemwe mumamukonda sakuyambitsa, khalani nanu gawo loyamba. Anthu omwe amaganiza kuti anyamata amayenera kudzawonana ndi anzawo masiku olakwika.
• Osang'ung'udza kapena kuchita mantha... Ngati mutha kuyambitsa zokambirana ndi wosankhidwa wanu, khalani ndi chidaliro komanso khalani osangalala. Ngati ili ndi vuto, yesetsani kulankhula molondola pamaso pagalasi.
• Sindikulangiza kukonzekera mawu kwa mnyamata pamsonkhano... Kupanda kutero, mutha kudzipeza muli osasangalala pomwe zochitika sizikugwirizana ndi zolembedwazo. Komanso, inu mukhoza kuiwala okonzeka kulankhula.
• Khalani aukhondo... Tsukani mano, kusamba, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala onunkhiritsa, mafuta onunkhiritsa komanso zodzoladzola.
• Ganizirani moyenera za mawonekedwe anu.... Simudzakhala wolimba mtima nthawi zonse mukamaganizira zolakwika. Kumbukirani, munthu aliyense amatanthauzira kukongola m'njira yake.
• Kukopa, kumwetulira ndi kuwombera maso anu... Chitani kanthu mwadala. Ndikukulangizani kuti musapite patali kwambiri.

Mwachidule, ndazindikira kuti kuti tikwaniritse cholingachi, ndikwanira kumwetulira, kukhalabe oyera, kuvala zovala zokongola komanso makongoletsedwe amakono.

Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti ndinu wokongola, zonse zidzatheka, ndipo malingaliro a ena ayenera kukhala chinthu chomaliza chodandaula. Aliyense ali ndi moyo wake, ndipo aliyense amaziyang'ana kuchokera kumbali yake. Ikani pambali kukayika konse ndikupita kukasangalala ndi chikondi.

Munkhaniyi, ndidagawana zambiri zomwe zingathandize mtsikanayo kupeza wokondedwa. Komabe, kusaka kwakwaniritsidwa bwino ndi theka la nkhondo. Yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti chibwenzicho sichitha pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo.

Ganizani mozama. Mu chiyanjano, gwiritsani ntchito mawu oti "ayi" pang'ono kwambiri. Kukhazikitsidwa kolondola kwa zikhumbo ndi malingaliro kumathandizira.

Perekani kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi mkangano, musadzudzule wokondedwa wanu. Popeza zidafika pamenepa, ndiye kuti onse awiri ali ndi mlandu.

Osakumbukira zochitika zoyipa zakale. Ngakhale wokondedwa wanu walakwitsa, Pepani. Ndipo zokumbukira zosangalatsa zidzakuthandizani kuchotsa malingaliro oyipa ndikuiwala nthawi zosasangalatsa.

Fufuzani chibwenzi chanu, pangani ubale wolimba, ndipo yesetsani kukhala ndiubwenzi wautali, wosangalala komanso wosangalala. Pokhapokha ngati pano mungapeze mathero osangalatsa. Tiwonana!

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